Question 10 of 14
3. We relate to breakdowns, disappointments, obstacles, and delays in the course, and life, in creative and resourceful ways.
3.1 I agree to use events, both in the course and in my life, as opportunities to deepen into greater levels of self-awareness, self-love, and self-responsibility as a way to gain mastery over the application of course material.
3.2 When faced with challenging circumstances, I agree to look for creative solutions and to communicate in ways that are generative of possible solutions, assuming that others are doing their best and are on my side.
3.3 I agree to strive to see myself as the source in all situations. This means that I will try to understand how I may have contributed to and/or co-created what is occurring and I will also remain aware of my commitment to respond to everyone and everything in generative and resourceful ways.
In the :Leading through the Lens of Love Program, we strive to use Nonviolent Communication and to take responsibility for our thoughts, feelings, and needs.
I feel _____ because my need for ____ is going unmet AND I choose _________ as a way to be accountable for my needs.
I understand that, in this community, we believe that people are often victimized in life and we understand that victimization changes how we view ourselves, others, and the world as a whole. Chance for Change asks all students to ensure that each indvidual and their story is acknowledged, heard, and seen to validate everyone’s life experience. We ask that you be willing to become the victor in your life and seek to create purpose from past experiences. Therefore, we ask that students refrain from blaming others, shaming themselves, or complaining about the past. Instead, we ask that students begin to see the past through the lenses of lessons, gifts, and silver linings, which becomes easier as awareness increases and skills are practiced.
Because I went through _____ I have been given the lesson of______. I am (able or not able) to embrace this lesson in my life right now and I can acknowledge that it’s an option if I choose.